Saturday, March 19, 2016

Life gets in the Way






    

Hello Friends,

     It has certainly been a while. I'm currently working on my second semester of college. It has not been an easy feat. Juggling work life, home life, and school life, has been a real struggle. I gained extra support from a family member, but lost support from some friends due to job changes, life changes, etc. As they say, "the show must go on". I'm happy that my children and my boyfriend have adjusted pretty well to my new education choice. This semester, I have taken on 4 classes compared to just 2 last semester. Sometimes, I even notice that it doesn't seem like I'm home as often as I'd like to be. At times, I feel like I am behind in completing my work for these classes, but by the grace of God, it seems like I am always able to catch up.

     Although, at times, I certainly question myself and wonder what I was thinking by making this decision in the first place, I know it's the right choice and a good choice because I see a difference in the increased enthusiasm for learning that my children have. I'm so very glad I could be the one to set the example for them. Before starting school, I was feeling a little unfulfilled in my job. I work at a small hospital, even though it's owned by a much larger hospital system, there is no room within my department and my position for advancement. Soon I'll have to make a decision about that. I'm comfortable now, but I know that I can do better and deserve better. I will eventually have to get uncomfortable to become comfortable in a better opportunity to advance myself in my career.

     In talking about careers, I'm excited to say that I've picked a major that I think will be an interesting match for me. I've decided to pursue a degree in psychology. For years, random strangers have felt comfortable talking to me about random to very personal things. It doesn't matter where I am. I've been on bus stops, in the laudromat, at events, and random strangers will start talking to me about whatever is bothering them. It used to drive me crazy at first, but I eventually realized that it's my God given talent. In case you don't know, this is a talent that comes naturally. It's not something you really have to work at, but you can enhance it if you'd like to help others with it, which is what I'd like to do.

   

 I believe everyone has something that they are naturally good at, and God has given them this ability to live their life on purpose and by purpose. By obtaining and embracing your purpose, you will also help others do the same. I guess this is kind of my mission statement in life. Once I figured this out about myself, it seemed like doors of positivity began opening everywhere. I will continue to remain excited about the possibilities coming my way and hope you do the same. Until next time, remember, someone believes in you.